10 Things I want to do IF..............

There are a lot of things I want to do, or places I want to go BUT not necessarily able to do so for some reasons.

1. Going to Disneyworld.
Disneyworld, not the "usual"Disneyland - or that petite Hongkong Disneyland *sigh*. I'm talking about the Orlando version, that people say would take 3-4 days to fully enjoy it? Dang US. I don't feel safe going there cause they do those rendition thing, locking people up in Guantanamo for no real reason (which is a funny thing cause looks like on the contrary it looks like some of them afraid of Muslims :D)

2. Furniture tour in Europe
Does anyone knows the show in Discover Travel & Living "Day Trip Designer"? That guy is hoping from one city to the other just to find certain piece of furniture - sofa, table, or whatever. Well, I wish I can do that. Really want to see the IKEA center, interior design museum, and other stores that sell all sorts of homey stuffs. Hhh I wish! Same as point 1, also worry about safety - but maybe we can still work around somehow

3. Buy a great modern mansion in the city and have Tara Bernerd decorate it!
I hate suburb house. Hate is a strong word but when you don't have enough money - then you'll just have to deal with it ha ha... Well, actually it's not the house that's not fun. It's the LOCATION. Come on, 2.5 hours just one way! That doesn't sound fulfilling in any way. Definitely not in your gas tank :D Why Tara Bernerd? Man, she's just the best designer in the world! Well, at least that's what I think now. I saw her works in "The Wow Factor", and it's just breath taking. Well this point 3 is not related to safety, but more on budget issue hehe

4. 2nd Honeymoon in Maldives! (and stay in a great resort)
Aaawww... isn't that place just gorgeous? It's awesome. And breathtaking. Ian said, it wouldn't be that romantic you know with all the heat and sun beaming in your head. Well he may be right he he, but it's always good to have a dream place to do :D

Err... still in no 5, but it's already hard to think what else I want to do :-? Hmmm... O well, just on top of my mind lah yah.

5. Skiing, snow playing in Swiss + going to ice hotel!
After spending time on beaches, it make sense to spend time on ice haha... I saw snow once I think when I went to Seattle long long time ago. It wasn't as cold as I thought it would be. And it wasn't smooth (surprise surprise). It's hard, slipery, and wet. But I don't know, again, it look romantic in pictures :D

Errr... already run out of ideas! Let's just continue sometime else in part 2 :D

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Pertanyaan yang pertama sih selalu aku jawab "Yah sama aja lah kayak waktu belon nikah, bedanya sekarang kayak tinggal bareng pacar aja wak ka ka". Errr ampe sekarang ga tahu dah jawaban "bener"nya apa.

Trus yang bikin bingung teh, why the hell people loves to track whether i'm pregnant or not?? Karena nikahnya terkesan mendadak kali yah ha ha... Jadi ntar klo jarak antara tanggal nikah sama tanggal ngelahirinnya > = 9 bulan 10 hari ga ha ha... Aku sering jawab aja belon, emang kita belum plan untuk punya anak.

Honestly setelah kita berdua pikir2, kita sama2 masih ga ngerti tujuan punya anak itu apa : Ada yang bilang, "ya itu kan stage hidup selanjutnya" --> and we were like *zingggg*.... Ada yang bilang buat meneruskan keturunan --> again another *zinggggg* Ada lagi yang bilang, "biar rame!" --> Ian actually replied "Err emangnya ga punya tipi kabel ya??"

Akhirnya kita put status baby decisionnya - TBD - to be determined :D Bukannya anti baby... It's just that, aku ngerasa belon siap lahir batin :D. Klo bayinya diem ketawa2 gitu sih lucu. Tapi klo udah nangis rewel gitu, aku masih refleks berusaha nyari tombol mute nya di mana (emangnya tipi!!!). Masih mikir, errr, ntar klo bapak ibunya mesti business travel ato kerja ampe malem (ato sekedar pengen jalan!) trus si kecil diapain?

Toh sekarang masih 25. Insya Allah secara biologis masih ada couple of years to think about it and determine. Kadang ngerasa bersalah sih ngeliat temen2 yang pengen banget punya anak tapi karena satu dan lain hal ga/belum bisa punya. Satu hal yang udah kita decide, klo pun sampai punya anak, kita harus bener2 udah yakin dan siap secara mental - bukan sekadar ikut2an, atau ngerasa "that's just what we have to do because everybody's doing it". I think to follow other ppl BLINDLY is just plain stupidity :D

Yang lucu, walopun blon jelas kita mo punya bebi atau ngga, tapi udah siap2 nama anak ha ha... Sebenernya ketemu ga sengaja waktu kita masih pacaran :P But I love the name so much! Ga mau share di sini ah, takut kecolongan he he... Keknya mo nikah sama siapapun, mo ngasih nama anak itu :P Entah kenapa di dunia ini keknya jauuuh lebih gampang nyari nama anak perempuan daripada laki2 :D

Tapiiiiiiiiiiii, klo emang punya anak, bisa order ga sih? Pengen yang kayak blasteran Jepang Amrik gitu!!! OMG, must be cute!!!! Trus klo udah rada gede bisa jadi bintang sinetron ato model, lumayan bisa nyari uang sendiri sebelum dapet KTP --> loh??? Ga deng canda :P Klo kata Ian, udah starting with the wrong foot klo nikah sama dia terus expect dapet anak bule gitu kecuali kita pungut anak nyasar di luar negeri wak ka ka...